I Chose Motherhood on My Terms. I Still Need Support. A Workbook on Loneliness, Connection, and Care for Single Mothers by Choice

$24.00

Choosing motherhood does not mean choosing to do everything alone.

How are loneliness and isolation showing up for you as a single mother by choice?

Written and illustrated by a therapist who is also a single mother by choice, this workbook makes room for both truths: loving the family you chose and needing more support than you have.

Inside you'll find:

  • Plain-language tools from CBT, ACT, DBT, and parts work, explained before you're asked to use them

  • Worksheets and journal pages with real writing space, plus permission to skip, answer briefly, or come back later

  • Reflections on being the only adult at home, feeling misunderstood even in SMC spaces, and being seen as capable while your own needs go unnoticed

  • Help asking for support that actually helps, and setting boundaries when you depend on the person helping you

  • A values exercise, a comfort menu built around your real time, energy, and budget, and original watercolor illustrations throughout

For anyone considering single motherhood by choice, trying to conceive, pregnant, postpartum, or parenting.

Details: 72-page downloadable PDF, US Letter size. Read onscreen and print individual worksheets as needed.

About the author: Beth P. Siller, LMFT, is a perinatal and reproductive mental health therapist, the founder of All That Matters Therapy, and a single mother by choice.

This is a psychoeducational workbook and not a substitute for therapy.

Choosing motherhood does not mean choosing to do everything alone.

How are loneliness and isolation showing up for you as a single mother by choice?

Written and illustrated by a therapist who is also a single mother by choice, this workbook makes room for both truths: loving the family you chose and needing more support than you have.

Inside you'll find:

  • Plain-language tools from CBT, ACT, DBT, and parts work, explained before you're asked to use them

  • Worksheets and journal pages with real writing space, plus permission to skip, answer briefly, or come back later

  • Reflections on being the only adult at home, feeling misunderstood even in SMC spaces, and being seen as capable while your own needs go unnoticed

  • Help asking for support that actually helps, and setting boundaries when you depend on the person helping you

  • A values exercise, a comfort menu built around your real time, energy, and budget, and original watercolor illustrations throughout

For anyone considering single motherhood by choice, trying to conceive, pregnant, postpartum, or parenting.

Details: 72-page downloadable PDF, US Letter size. Read onscreen and print individual worksheets as needed.

About the author: Beth P. Siller, LMFT, is a perinatal and reproductive mental health therapist, the founder of All That Matters Therapy, and a single mother by choice.

This is a psychoeducational workbook and not a substitute for therapy.